Habits of highly attractive people
Before writing what are the habits of attractive people I would like to discuss what is attractiveness. This may be your ability to be noticed as soon as possible. Some people might say a attractive person is a person who is pleasing to others. So attractiveness is basically your quality of being pleasing or appealing to the senses.
Sense of humor
This life can be difficult at times. We’re faced with various challenges that test even the strongest among us. As such, the ability to ease up and laugh once in a while is an important attribute. This laughter can be directed towards others or ourselves, as long as there are good intentions behind such actions. Needless to say, a sense of humor is incredibly attractive – both in friends and potential mates. Who wants to be around a stiff all the time?
Passion to live a positive life
A person must always try to do positive things. Your negative approach is what makes you less attractive. Everyone wants to be around a person who has a passion o live life. Passion is attractive because it’s often selfless. We can navigate the turbulence of life when we deeply believe in a purpose – be it friends, family, love, work or something else.
Decision making ability
Decision making ability shows the sense of direction a person has. This attribute is perhaps most attractive in a potential mate, as the ability to make a difficult decision is something that will ultimately come about. Rashness, on the other hand, is not attractive. Rational decisiveness is an attractive and increasingly uncommon trait to find in someone else.
Open minded person
Closed-mindedness is a sign of ignorance – something that most of us detest. Why do many of us think of politics and organized religion as emotionally draining? Among many reasons is the division created between groups of people. An open mind can resolve many of these divisions, if only we’d be willing to more widely examine the notion as a society.
Listen to others
Talking makes communication, whereas listening makes the connection. You don’t feel good when you are talking with someone, but that person doesn’t listen to you. Listening shows that the person is interested in you and care for you which makes bond, leads to better communication and ultimately makes you attractive.
This can be a difficult one in practice. Most (all?) of us have insecurities, but some are able to focus on the things that make them a good person. Further, we want to be around people that have confidence in themselves, as they’re often able to make even the most insecure person comfortable. Confidence is not only attractive, it’s contagious.
Accepting of others
Many of the world’s problems today can be attributed to one thing: the inability to accept people for who they are. How many conflicts are going on right now because of the unwillingness of one group of people to simply accept another group? Needless to say, those that are accepting to others have a tendency to attract those of the same ilk. When someone is accepting of others, they’re more likely to display love towards others.
” The law of attraction is this: You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are.”
-Dr. Wayne Dyer